Sandi, your name has poped up on many different post. You are one very busy woman and I can tell you are also very appreciated. I hope your D is doing much better. I dont want to be another person pulling on you when you already have too many directions to go, so I am just going to ask you a question here instead. Sorry if you have already answered this at some point in the past, but you have soooooo many post out there I did not find the answer. When you finally decided that you wanted back into the R, did you just try to ease back in or did you jump? Was your heart telling you that you still loved your H but your head was saying no? THe reason I am asking is because my H has been really reaching out to me alot and I am wondering if these are signes that he is wanting to be with me but too scared because of the hurt he felt when he left. Make sence? Or it could just be he is relieved I am his friend and now he no longer needs to feel guilty for the A he had. I would rather believe the first.
You have seen many sucess here. How does the WAS start to get back into the R that they ademently claimed was over? I believe there is a struggle that occurs way before the declearation of wanting to R and that is why they can send so many confusing signals. One minute buying your favorite cookie and leaving it for you, the next scheduling the mediation appointment for D. Just wanted to know your opinion. Thank you so much.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
