(((Karen))) I know how hard it is to have to deal with someone who is totally unreasonable and my heart goes out to you.
You have done really well and H doesn't have the right to say anything at this point. His decisions and actions speak volumes. Please do what Puppy suggests as it really will benefit you in the end. A journal will also help you to remember some of this stuff and will help with the goal setting and keeping.
I admire your strenght and grace in such a jacked up situation.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option