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...shock him into reaising what he is giving up.

I don't know about shocking him but maybe showing him. Obliquely.

Get a life! as they say in the DR book. Do stuff. Have fun. I know, you don't feel like it. Your heart is in tatters. I know! But going out and doing new stuff, having fun, is the best way you can show your hubby that he is giving something good up.

(I don't do this enough myself, but I'm getting there)


M 43
S14 S13 D11 D7
Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....