I'm sorry I wasn't around to post to you! I think you did great!!!
Also, don't think your H has heard from his L, I know when my L would send my H's L a proposal, sometimes it would be 3 days before my H would see it. I would always know when he got it b/c he would be mad & say "I have nothing to say to you" or one time he came in drunk & said "why do you hate me".
