I really don't expect him to contact me now since he didn't today at all. My only worries was that he would tell me he got M'd & I wouldn't know what to say. No way could I tell him congrats or be happy for him b/c I'm not. I still have not given up on him. I do have a feeling the joint email was the OW's ideal. I don't know if she has access to this other acct. or not but I too thought that was interesting. Right now I'm just not ready to talk to him.
My Dad told me he was glad that I had taken the pictures down of my H, he was tired of seeing his face! They are so angry & upset with him, but they also saw their baby hurt, plus they thought of him as a son so he has hurt everyone. I have to understand their point of view.