Man's perspective, hmmm but Im not him but here it is:
You're calling him out on the OW without totally letting on, he's thinking Uh-Oh. Then you gave him a reason you need to talk to him, Uh-OH! SO how did the DB coach say to play it now? If he avoids conflict you might be right he won't call, what's the back-up plan. You're in charge right now. Expect some pass-agg behavoir back. Be assertive in what you want and expect. How are you so successful at work?
Keep thinking about you, not selfishly but confidently you desreve to be treated better.
Tattoo huh? Well your getting my attention ;\)
Mysterious I like it.
Cheers


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.