Hi - I just read your original thread and you are exactly who I need insight from you for my husbands position.
I had the A . I lied. I clawed my way back from hating my husband to wanting to make a go of it 110 %. As i changed - he changed. What went wrong. Why cannot he forgive me. Am I dealing with a man with a crushed ego? I feel i have tried everything to win back a little trust and he seems to be getting worse.
As a man how did your WA make you feel. How did you get over that and see that your family and M could be happier than it has ever been. All our family an friends are devastated about our seperation but he does not talk to anyone or read. His world there are right and wrong and no grey areas. He held me on pedastal and i believed he relied on me for his happiness.
My distancing myself at the moment is also tied up with trying to shock him into reaising what he is giving up. i feel all over the place as well !!!
