Train In Vain - Infidelity? - Help - Need Advise!!

[MsMelancoly]

Well, I'm certainly glad I didn't make any moves with my H before talking to my DBcoach. She always comes up with good ideas & perspectives. We discussed what happened when I found out about OW. She said it was very selfish of my H friend, to ask not to tell my H he told me. (Didn't think of it that way - I'm too kind). Then she said with the OW in the picture my H probably feels like he passed the river of no return in our M. (True) So here's the email she told me to write him - which I emailed this afternoon.

Geez, I ran into some people that knew you at the Ren Faire. Wow ... they thought I was your girlfriend ........ that was ackward ......... wow what a surprise. I guess that explains a lot about whats been going on with us, that I didn't know before. I guess I have a lot to think about. Oh, by the way, I would like to trade cars next weekend, Sept 6th. I would like to use the convertible one weekend while the weather is still nice. Email me a response about the car.

So we shall see if I get a response. I told her I was tired of this stale-mate & was ready for the next step whatever it may be. She said this could bring a positive or negative result & it could move rather quickly either way.

As she said the letter shows confidence - which - I think I'm lacking in. Mostly because of being woried about doing or saying the wrong thing. I have to find that again.

So there's my developements of the day....I am confident & hopeful ... I think I'm ready, got my feet steady for what life throws my way.