Do you know what you call a insomniac, a dyslexic and a agnostic all rolled into one?
Someone who lays awake all night wondering whether or not there is a Dog.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
So what's up? Update? How are you? Details please.....
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Well, this will be a two party platform. First off I went to see a L today. She gave me the facts, which I am relieved about. It seems my H would only have claim to my retirement $$, relavaint during our M & really nothing more. (Pretty much cuz my downstairs rental paid for most of the bills). I told this to a co-worker & she asked me if the L said to stop contributing to my plan. I said no - she said I should. So I went for info - I got info & it's one less thing to have in the pit of my stomache. Wheww.
Next ... a drum roll for my DBcoaching advise ..
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
Well, I'm certainly glad I didn't make any moves with my H before talking to my DBcoach. She always comes up with good ideas & perspectives. We discussed what happened when I found out about OW. She said it was very selfish of my H friend, to ask not to tell my H he told me. (Didn't think of it that way - I'm too kind). Then she said with the OW in the picture my H probably feels like he passed the river of no return in our M. (True) So here's the email she told me to write him - which I emailed this afternoon.
Geez, I ran into some people that knew you at the Ren Faire. Wow ... they thought I was your girlfriend ........ that was ackward ......... wow what a surprise. I guess that explains a lot about whats been going on with us, that I didn't know before. I guess I have a lot to think about. Oh, by the way, I would like to trade cars next weekend, Sept 6th. I would like to use the convertible one weekend while the weather is still nice. Email me a response about the car.
So we shall see if I get a response. I told her I was tired of this stale-mate & was ready for the next step whatever it may be. She said this could bring a positive or negative result & it could move rather quickly either way.
As she said the letter shows confidence - which - I think I'm lacking in. Mostly because of being woried about doing or saying the wrong thing. I have to find that again.
So there's my developements of the day....I am confident & hopeful ... I think I'm ready, got my feet steady for what life throws my way.
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
You still there? So what are you going to say when he calls? How are you going work on Mel now? I imagine your self-esteem has taken a hit so you gotta stay busy doing things good for you. Big plans for the long weekend? Your turn for the joke. Cheers Ms Mel ps You can handle it.
Last edited by Coach; 08/29/0803:30 AM.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Yes I'm still here. When he calls??? Hhhhmmm, haven't thought about that - because - I don't expect him to. He feels safe with emails. I'm not trying to be negative - just in reality.
Working on me .... well ... I have house projects to finish before winter. No big plans for the weekend - I'm a homebody. Thinking about getting a tattoo though (think I can take the pain now)
How about you - any big wekend plans?
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
