Well, this will be a two party platform. First off I went to see a L today. She gave me the facts, which I am relieved about. It seems my H would only have claim to my retirement $$, relavaint during our M & really nothing more. (Pretty much cuz my downstairs rental paid for most of the bills). I told this to a co-worker & she asked me if the L said to stop contributing to my plan. I said no - she said I should. So I went for info - I got info & it's one less thing to have in the pit of my stomache. Wheww.
Next ... a drum roll for my DBcoaching advise ..
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)