Ok, so here is how it went. I showed up with my female possy of friends, all smiles and laughs. H shows up a few minutes later and comes over to say high. I say howdy then walk away to go and sit with my friends. He ends up standing at the back during the whole school thingy. After we break up to go up to the classroom, he follows me up like a puppy and sits right next to me. Kept leaning in to talk to me and joke around with me. I was fun, but detached. I did not lean into to him or start any conversations. Then he leans over and says "I know I prob should not say this here, but after we get D I really think that we should try and get aid to get S back into his old school. This one is nothing like what he had. I know its a great school, much better than the one we went to, but I still think we should try for the other one." I smiled and said I agree. Then my friend came and sat next to me and I turned and joked around with her. After teacher was done talking, He wandered around like a lost puppy again while I talked to friends, then he came over and said bye he was leaving. I said bye, thanks for coming then continued to talk to my friends.
I know they say dont believe anything they say and half of what they do. Even my friend said that he was sending out mixed signals. I think he is just in internal conflict at the moment and trying to keep his resistance up. Does this sound like the termoil that a WAS goes through before becoming brave enough to want to recommit? He has always been a stick my toe in the water before doing anything kind of guy. It takes him awhile to make a decision (except for getting a D). I just hope I am not reading too much into it. THere are so many moments now that feel like old times. Please, someone give me your opinion.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008