So we had it out tonight...

[Livin4ME]

And it did not go well...we got into it tonight. I told him I knew they were still talking more than 'the occasional text'. I couldn't take it anymore. He tries hiding the texting like I can't see him! Add insult to injury. I wanna pack all his stuff up and throw it in the car and drive his butt back down to her place and leave him there. He's laid up right now cuz of his surgery. My wall is coming up. I want to make him leave before he gets better and does it on his own again.
He says it's hard not to talk every once in a while. I told him that I thought that when he dismissed the divorce, that meant it was over between them. He knew it meant no contact. He says it's hard. Well no kidding. But come on!!! I told him he was transparent. He asked what that meant...yeah, he's clueless sometimes. I told him it meant I could see right thru him.
Afterwards, I went and got in the shower. Haven't said anything to him since.
Any comments!? Encouragement?! Ideas?! Anything?!