H4H, I noticed on your last thread you mentioned some women friends. I especially noticed your Filipino friend because I also had a Filipino friend during my separation. She was one of the most beautiful women I'd ever met, she cried with me, empathized with me, validated me and then kicked my ass to the curb just as I separated. Actually, she just ditched me without any discussion. I assume it was because our friendship was becoming a little more intimate than it was supposed to be. My point being that I was pretty messed up by that, I allowed myself to get caught up in a situation that I wasn't ready to deal with. So, although I understand the allure, don't go there, don't tell yourself you can handle it cuz you can't! We are damaged goods right now, we can't be there for anyone else relationship wise and we shouldn't be there until we've got our own sh!t together. Be very careful right now with any woman who you see as a friend but also as a desirable woman...bad combo right now. Been there, done that...don't you!
