This is my first post to you. I'm new here & have not gotten too many posts myself. I've been following your story though & we have some similarities.
I'm trying to be nice & handle a divorce filing at the same time too. My h still continues to "visit" & brings his laundry even though his apartment building has a laundrymat.
I think you are doing a great job! I agree with the others, there is an attachment he's reluctant to give up - laundry is just an excuse.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
