You are right that this is her journey. This part of her life is more about her and issues she has within her than it is about you. Time is on your side. If you can be good to her and be there for her, I believe it greatly increases your chances of getting through this.

Hang in there. It will get better.

M35 W37
S9 D6
M12 yrs Know 15 yrs
Bomb 1/28/07
My Sitch
Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford