I read through your thread -- but fairly quickly so I may have missed a detail. But I'm wondering if your wife isn't really ill and therefore also depressed. Or very depressed and therefore also is ill.
I wouldn't treat this as if she were an MLCer.
Think about how you would maneuver if all this stemmed from a physical illness.
Hang in there...and trust God.
Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. I Corinthians 13:7
I cling to the following passage, given to me by a sweet nun when I asked her to pray for me:
For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. 14 I will be found by you," declares the LORD (from Jeremiah 29)
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