It's nice to meet you too. Can I ask what GAL stands for? I know most but not that one....
Short for Getting a Life activities/hobbies. I do taekwondo, was in a musical last year and hope to be in another this year, tennis, cooking, gardening, taking classes, shopping, etc. Anything is good that you enjoy and that keeps you busy, it will improve your self-confidence, and I also like activities I've never done before also as those really get your mind off troubles and worrying, etc.
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Since this has happened so recently what do I do? Do I watch and wait? With where I am at with this R do I just go ahead and file for a D?
Well, personally I believe that most As end in breakup at some point, but with a 21 year old OW, I would think that it would burn itself out pretty quickly. It's more a matter of when they will breakup than if I think. Divorcing is your decision, but I don't think it's anything you should rush into really. If you knew your H would come back in 3 or 6 months and want to try again would you want to? B/c I think that will probably happen at some point...Karen
