That's all you can do. My H knew my transmission fluid needed to be changed. He said 2 weeks ago "I'll call around and get you a good price". Well, he never did, so I did, and went and got it changed. He saw the bill on the table, and I thought *for sure* he would criticize me. He didn't. But he has in the past.

I had the answer prepared that was suggested on your thread "I did what I thought was best in the situation".

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Thank goodness there is at least one parent in most sitches that gives a damn


Us parents wouldn't be any other place than with our kids. Unfortunately our spouses will take advantage of that, and forget their responsibilities, banking on the 100% knowledge that we WILL take care of things at home.