Hey, I'm ok w/ D sleeping w/ me but the real thing is I didn't set and stick to boundaries w/ her on this one. I gave into her and let her sleep w/ me. Once in a while is fine, but I don't want to teach her to act up to get her way w/ Daddy.
So, we moved her back to her bed last weekend and I'll keep doing it while reassuring her she's ok and I won't let anything happen to her. Once the custody is decided, I'll let her come in if she's scared, but will try to get her to be independent and feel confident.
Concerning the custody decision, the parenting evaluator won't do much until W responds to our request for her to release her medical/therapy records to the evaluator (we also asked for copies). Well, of course W doesn't want these out and especially not to me b/c I'm pretty sure they contain a TON of stuff that will go completely against her lies and other manipulations of the truth.
I released my records and we then followed up asking for hers in good faith. As she continues to balk, she's making herself look worse and worse to both the evaluator and the courts. I wanted my actions and therapy records to be transparent so everyone would know I'm not hiding anything. If she continues to delay doing this it sends the message of "what is she hiding?" and "has she really been telling us the truth/whole story?"
As for SPM, we did get to talk for almost an hour, but I only had time on Sunday which was his day w/ his kids, so there was no way to connect. I'll be sending him some Husky tickets soon, so I'll be in touch w/ him and his sitch.
Finally, I don't think W is actively in w/ the Snake. D has said - unprovoked, of course - a few times that they haven't seen him much lately, so I'm guessing he's not in the picture in the "boyfriend" role right now.
However, I do get the feeling she still listens to him and his suggestions as she is almost NEVER nice to me when she's at work w/ him, but in the evenings and on the weekends when its just her, she's nice to me to the point where she's pleasant and even almost "flirty." Thus, I'm guessing he fires her up at work, but again, it's just a guess there.
Ok, that's it for now. Wild Cherry's "Funky Music" is almost over, so the iPod playlist is at its end. I think that's my cue to get off my rear and hit the gym before I lose all will to go.
