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Re: My life is a telenovela LL44 #1571295 08/26/08 06:47 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	lwb, jinkies! I am sorry YOU'RE here and with little ones too! God was merciful to me in that I did not have kids with my STBXH...i can make a clean break. Prayers to you... Valentine Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1571708 08/26/08 10:41 PM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove Member
Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi Vali, Just wanted to pop in and wish you all the best. Will visit your thread from time to time. (((HUGS))) xxx

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1571837 08/27/08 12:51 AM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 10,147 Memphis, TN S sofaraway Member
sofaraway Member S Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 10,147 Memphis, TN	Quote: Ian, considering the man my STBX has turned out to be...I am NOT sorry I am here... I get that completely Vali, and if I wasn't in such a fowl mood lately I would have wrote to you what I really think, just can't stomach it right now. Just know that after reading what happened I have been thinking a lot about you and the one thing I do want to say is that you are a very strong woman and I have no doubt that you will handle it all with the dignity and class that you have shown throughout this whole ordeal. Take care of YOU Vali...... Ian M- 48 XW- mentally 17 KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28 Married- 17 years Divorce final- 10/16/09

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1572083 08/27/08 04:31 AM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 4,054 So Cal K KarenMarieS Member
KarenMarieS Member K Joined: May 2006 Posts: 4,054 So Cal	Quote: be that they don't 'forget' seems like they don't wanna be the bad guys/gals...they avoid anything that is remotely taking responsibility regarding their current marriages Absolutley! with out a doubt! Mine does this, still wants to be the good ol boy - as if my friends and family and our son dosnt know the truth. durrr Have a good week $\:\)$ Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life

Re: My life is a telenovela Truelove #1572718 08/27/08 07:43 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Thanks True...I have always enjoyed your posts...I hear that in Surviving the threads are not as active because we are either (1) going thru a divorce or (2) healing and both take time. I would love for you to stop by from time to time to visit!!! Much love, Valentine Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela sofaraway #1572761 08/27/08 08:18 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Ian, i know how you feel! It has been hard for ME to stomach. I feel like I am watching my life on TV. As for me being strong...I think it is this journey that has made me even stronger. I hope I continue to deal with it as I have done in the past... Hugs, Valentine Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1572890 08/27/08 09:33 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota F fig Member
fig Member F Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota	Vali you are sweet and strong all the way to your core coal has to withstand severe pressure in order to turn into diamonds you are a diamond

Re: My life is a telenovela fig #1573531 08/28/08 03:19 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Fig that was a wonderful compliment! Thank you!!! Vali Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: My life is a telenovela Valentine #1574190 08/28/08 11:18 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota F fig Member
fig Member F Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,659 Minnesota	I have started reading The Secret again and everytime I pick it up, I think of you thank you

Re: My life is a telenovela fig #1574208 08/28/08 11:34 PM
Joined: Jun 2002 Posts: 9,929 Illinois BethM Member
BethM Member Joined: Jun 2002 Posts: 9,929 Illinois	Hi Vali, For everything you've been through I have no doubt that you will come through this and be a better person for it. It's hard but that's what makes us grow. It's your turn now! Love, Bethie

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