Yesterday I was chatting with him for a bit on Google...he signed out and then I went to FB and saw him there so to be evil I popped into chat and said
me..."hi". he..."your everywhere!" me..."I was checking on something....are you hiding from me?" he..."I can run but I can't hide" me..."hun, the world is only so big :)" he signed out
I went back to Google to check email he was there again and I said "boo" and then signed out but stayed in Gmail.
I think he thought I was chasing him but I was trying to have fun
Too much?
*lightly slapping Jen's hands* BIG FAT NO NO.
Keep yourself as invisible on google. (I do this with my H. It works wonders) Do not chat him up on fb, do not text him, do not call him unless it is absolutely necessary. Give him space, let him breathe.
You know, Lola started keeping a journal about her calls/texts to her H, based on something her IC asked her to do. She asked her to journal even when she felt the need. I think this would be a good thing for you to do also. Maybe you can start to see a pattern, or find out why you feel the need at the times you do.
Maybe Lola could chime in here on this, but I think she's been finding it useful.
