yes! I think the worst question you can pose to a man, especailly one who's questioning his R, is "why?" Do we women really need to know the reason for everything and do men need to give us one?
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
That's okay though. Remember, he needs to think, and we are talking about a guy. They generally internalize, and so he is probably wondering WTH happened???? She is not calling, she is not bugging, geez...now she is going out, uh oh...
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
He needs time to think over the changes he sees you making...the changes he's been asking for. He needs to internalize it, mull it over, decide if it's real, wtf happened to the old J. It's all good, and all ok.
And remember, it's not going to happen overnight. My H has been doing this for a few weeks now, and although the progress is slow, there are small steps. That's okay, trust takes time to rebuild.
Its easier said than done, trust me (I know, you have seen me in a panic) but you can do it...and you are on the path!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Yesterday I was chatting with him for a bit on Google...he signed out and then I went to FB and saw him there so to be evil I popped into chat and said
me..."hi". he..."your everywhere!" me..."I was checking on something....are you hiding from me?" he..."I can run but I can't hide" me..."hun, the world is only so big :)" he signed out
I went back to Google to check email he was there again and I said "boo" and then signed out but stayed in Gmail.
I think he thought I was chasing him but I was trying to have fun
Too much?
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Yesterday I was chatting with him for a bit on Google...he signed out and then I went to FB and saw him there so to be evil I popped into chat and said
me..."hi". he..."your everywhere!" me..."I was checking on something....are you hiding from me?" he..."I can run but I can't hide" me..."hun, the world is only so big :)" he signed out
I went back to Google to check email he was there again and I said "boo" and then signed out but stayed in Gmail.
I think he thought I was chasing him but I was trying to have fun
Too much?
Ummmmm...YES. No texting, no chatting, NADA.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
