The time frame doesn't matter. I think some sitch's resolve quickly if the people put the ideas into practice quickly. I just didn't. I wasn't ready for any of it. I knew from almost the very beginning I was supposed to back off and give him space. I did for the first three months. I did not call him at all, and he would call me about once a week-10 days. But the convo's were strained. Then, it started to get really good, and for a time we were talking almost every day. And then, BOOM, Lola opens her mouth and puts her pretty high heeled, jeweled shoe in it by taking the advice of a friend who told me to proposition him for sex, because all guys think of sex. Yeah. BAD IDEA. I cannot stress this enough. Whether you are male or female, DON'T SUGGEST CASUAL SEX TO YOUR WAS.

That was about 4 months ago, and we have had ups and downs, but are starting to come back a little. This time, I will be smarter, wiser, and just be patient.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..