AURGH. Right when I get adjusted to things as they are, more things hit. STBX is going to Hawaii with OW and her 10-year old son. Right that they just reconnected and if they did, what kind of a Mom takes her boyfriend of three weeks on vacation with her and her son?

Loserville, and I'm talking about my STBX.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.