I'm going to have to ask my L about that; I'm thinking that his behavior might change again for the worse after the D and how I can protect me/the kids if that happens too.
karen, just always be holding a baseball bat when you have to talk to him face to face. Just kind of be waving it around a little for emphasis.
Maybe that'll stop the jackass from talking sh*t to you.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."