I think that is probable. I think sometimes all they need is a little time. It is hard on us because we know what we want, and they don't yet. But it is also true that depending on our attitudes, a lot of times they realize what they have given up. So here is to hoping that our H's make that discovery!
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..