I wish my H would stretch a little more here. So far, he seems to consider a pill the answer to the ED problem. After trying the variety pack, he has found Levitra to be the best for him, probably because it works the fastest.
My H is still depending on me to steer the course of our SL, and although he is trying hard to be more affectionate around the house, it is just sweet...not sexy at all. He says he has no sex drive, but can do it whenever I want if he has enough "warning" to take a pill. Somehow, this just doesn't cut it. I want to be desired by him, not just "serviced" once a week.
I know it's his brain, not his willy that needs to be "rewired". I have purchased a number of books that have been recommended by others here, to see if it will spur him to take additional action. At this point, he doesn't see a need for any other effort than a pharma one to make a sex life happen again for us.
There is so much out there for both of us to learn and grow from....I only wish we had started a long time ago.
