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Vali

I just caught up with your thread. I am so sorry it had to come to this but you did all that you could have done. It would have been my breaking point too. Like everyone else says take care of you!!! You are right you are a strong woman and will make it!!!

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Thanks YR, you don't know how much it means to me!!!

Prayers and hugs back at ya!

Valentine


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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FORGOT TO TELL YOU???? DOES HE THINK YOU FELL OFF THE TURNIP TRUCK YESTERDAY????


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest

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I think they all think this way an2m. I am amazed sometimes that my H actually thinks I am THAT dumb!!


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!
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an2m, apparently he thinks he is smarter than everyone. Newsflash: he's not. He is apparently so smart that he knocked up the OW...don't know if that was a planned thing or not...seems like not to me...but whatever...he even named the kid after himself! why is that not surprising???

I am not sure what is going on in his head but I know whatever it is...is no good. He has some deep-rooted issues and I KNOW he fits the profile of a narcissist.

Patti, I am just glad I am no longer in limbo. My marriage is over. I can now move forward and begin the healing process and move towards a better life.

Hope things are improving in your sitch...

Hugs,
Vali


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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OH, I think they ALL think we're dumb...they are delusional.

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Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

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oh he named his son "Howard the coward"??????


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest

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LOL!!!!

OMG! THAT IS CLASSIC!

In all honesty though, I feel sorry for the kid...he has a dad who is basically a narcissist and a mother who used the age old trick to entrap him...glad my parents were not like that. This is the legacy this kid will have to live with...even if he does marry her...the kid will figure out he was born prior to their marriage...how sad.

Last edited by Valentine; 08/29/08 03:04 PM.

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

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