My W came to the house to pick up some paperwork. When she found out I was home she started to drive off but I went out the front door and waved her back in.
She had just gotten out of divorce court and she looked horrible.We hugged very tightly and I stroked her head. It was like holding a child. I told her I loved her and gave her the paperwork. She said very little. She just cried and started to shake. I did notice that she was wearing a ring I gave her for Christmas. She had it on her right hand.
She seems very sad. It is like she is on a journey of sorts to try and figure out life. Confused, sad, scared.
I can't figure this whole thing out. All I know is that I still love her. It is very painful for me too.
Me- 47 W- 45 Married 22 years Together 30 years No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat 2005 - 2007 W in MLT 1/08 - Crisis hits 3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA 4/08 W files for divorce 8/08 Divorce final