My W came to the house to pick up some paperwork. When she found out I was home she started to drive off but I went out the front door and waved her back in.

She had just gotten out of divorce court and she looked horrible.We hugged very tightly and I stroked her head. It was like holding a child. I told her I loved her and gave her the paperwork. She said very little. She just cried and started to shake. I did notice that she was wearing a ring I gave her for Christmas. She had it on her right hand.

She seems very sad. It is like she is on a journey of sorts to try and figure out life. Confused, sad, scared.

I can't figure this whole thing out. All I know is that I still love her. It is very painful for me too.


Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final