Groundhog Day WAW#15

[LostPhil]

What do you do for fun? Asked by The Wifey on her thread, I wanted to include it here.

I fight with everyone that wishes to fight with me on divorcebusting.com on information that is either irrelavant or moot to busting divorces.

I like to proof people wrong. Is a flaw or an air of superiority. Who knows... I just reemed out my boss. Because he was driving me nuts. I told him how to do something. I told him I was busy trying to rescue data on a customers computer. I told him how to fix the problem. But he went a different route was still buried it in an hour later. I went to rescue him and fixed in within five minutes.

Who's stubborn. Me or him. He stressed himself out. Tried to stress me out. What I did, fixed the problem.

People do this to me all the time. They pretend I don't know what I'm talking about. Then they go their own route. Then I'm the a-hole.

I know the problem with my wife. She is immature. She's stubborn. She was jealous, insecure, and had no self esteem. I know I need to establish a schedule. I know I need to cut her loose. Make her pay her own insurance, etc... Refi the house.

I could file for sole custody. What will that do? That will set her into a rage. That isn't working towards my goal.

I'm not a doormat. I'm just taking things slowly. I love her and will love her unconditionally. I don't care what she does, she just needs to come home.


Hmm, enough of that.

What do I do for fun. I play guitar. I play video games. Fun for me was watching my daughter play baseball. She didn't want to play this summer. She wants to play hockey. Sorry she isn't going to play hockey because selfish wife will not talk to me. I couldn't get her on summer skills because the times were 5, 5:30 and 6. I can't leave work, drive home or whereever, and make it to the rink. Wife wanted to work, and leave the household. So since she didn't play summer skills, she isn't going to play winter hockey. Hockey is expensive. I'm not sure I could swing it with wife gone. So who's fault is it.

I play video games.

I go to school online full time. But it isn't fun. It's tedious and grueling.

I like to joke around allot.

Really fun hasn't really ben my presidence. Just breathing has. Putting one foot in front of the other. Some days are better then others.

Go to the Steeler game. That might be fun. If I go. If it doesn't rain. But what is fun being around a thousand drunk people. What is fun about paying $6 for a beer? When I don't even care about drinking anymore. Drinking became none fun. Really being live at a football game isn't that fun. You miss most of the action. Being up high, you see the plays develop better, but so what.

Fun. I like to go hunting. But that isn't fun anymore and it is not in season. Hunting has become more of chore.

Shooting. I skeet shot allot on Friday nights. But the crew I shot with all have different schedules, and it just wasn't fun anymore.

I like to go golfing. But even at that I go by myself. What is fun about that?

I like to go in the bushes with the wife. That was always fun.

LostPhil needs to have some fun.

[Babygirl]

Phil! yes you do need to have fun!! Go to the game!! once you are there, you will get so into that game ya know? make a sign and hold up that says Hi Babygirl kansas's only Steelers fan for me lol!! DANG 6 bucks for a beer? guess it has been a long time since i have gotten to go to any live sports, except college football!
Can you just target shoot? I do that here on my own (yes a woman who loves sports and owns guns i know weird eh?) to make sure i am ready when hunting season opens up!
ok and you like beer? I brew my own! its fun, actually pretty cheap, and it helps me destress! you can get them for under 50 bucks.
See you have now made me think about all kinds of things besides whether or not the H is talking to the OW at work lol!

[smith18]

Babygirl - where were you when I was looking for a wife 10 years ago?

[Babygirl]

funny but 10 years ago i had just started the relationshiop with my now H! That is one thing he used to love about me, and that I am not high maintenance! hmmmmm maybe thats why the OW all have been huh lol?

[LostPhil]

I don't think I would want a wife that went hunting. Hunting is for me. My time alone from life, the world...etc...

I had a girlfriend before wife and she loved to go fishing. Take me fishing. Take me fishing... Take me fishing. Kind of made fishing non fun. Because I felt like I was the one fishing and she was the one getting snags, needing something changed.

I would yell at her. You are a damn fisherwoman. Unsnag your own crap. I'm trying to fish. She was high maintenance when it came to fishing. Point is she made it non fun, because she wanted to always go. Then she was pain, and only wanted to catch fish. She didn't want to have to work for it, and forget it if I caught something before she did. Holy Terror.

Well usually though after fishing was better part. You know bushes...

Now babygirl... I'm sure you skin your own buck. Load your own rifle. Get in your own tree stand... Etc...

Sign people at football games are annoying. I think they are better at wrestling matches.

[LostPhil]

Well that went pretty well. The kids called after school. I jokingly asked my daughter to ask my wife if it was ok if I went to the Steeler game.

I could hear my wife in the background say. Why would he ask me that? Why would I care if he went to the Steeler game?

I told daughter I was just joking to see what mommy would say. She said you are so silly dad. I said no honey I think it is sad that your mommy doesn't care what I do. She agreed.

I talked to son and he was so tired he didn't want to talk to much. Then he hung up. I called back. Wife picked up. She said oh he hung up on you on accident. Her and I talked a little. I vented how homework is killing me, and it is so grueling.

She doesn't care, but wait are we not suppose to believe nothing we hear?

[LostPhil]

Babygirl,

Problem is in her opinion Beer and my drinking destroyed our marriage and I ruined her life.

I did try brewing my own with Mr. Beer. It turned out all right. I was looking into other methods, but it turns out to microbrew your own it gets expensive.

[Babygirl]

LOL Phil!!! I love to fish, and I untangle my owns mess, and bait my own hook too! AND yes matter of factly I do take care of my own deer, well except the skinning part, I am tiny and not strong enuff lol! And my tree stand is in the corner of the back pasture! There is no sharing hunting time in my house, unless its taking one of the kiddos with me deer hunting, or its bird hunting!
ok fine, dont take the sign, I will just figure out which guy you are when I am watching that game lol!

[Babygirl]

so glad you got to talk to the kids!!

[LostPhil]

Babygirl,

What made you post to me? And you are nice to me? It's refreshing and I'm glad you did.