What do you do for fun? Asked by The Wifey on her thread, I wanted to include it here.
I fight with everyone that wishes to fight with me on divorcebusting.com on information that is either irrelavant or moot to busting divorces.
I like to proof people wrong. Is a flaw or an air of superiority. Who knows... I just reemed out my boss. Because he was driving me nuts. I told him how to do something. I told him I was busy trying to rescue data on a customers computer. I told him how to fix the problem. But he went a different route was still buried it in an hour later. I went to rescue him and fixed in within five minutes.
Who's stubborn. Me or him. He stressed himself out. Tried to stress me out. What I did, fixed the problem.
People do this to me all the time. They pretend I don't know what I'm talking about. Then they go their own route. Then I'm the a-hole.
I know the problem with my wife. She is immature. She's stubborn. She was jealous, insecure, and had no self esteem. I know I need to establish a schedule. I know I need to cut her loose. Make her pay her own insurance, etc... Refi the house.
I could file for sole custody. What will that do? That will set her into a rage. That isn't working towards my goal.
I'm not a doormat. I'm just taking things slowly. I love her and will love her unconditionally. I don't care what she does, she just needs to come home.
Hmm, enough of that.
What do I do for fun. I play guitar. I play video games. Fun for me was watching my daughter play baseball. She didn't want to play this summer. She wants to play hockey. Sorry she isn't going to play hockey because selfish wife will not talk to me. I couldn't get her on summer skills because the times were 5, 5:30 and 6. I can't leave work, drive home or whereever, and make it to the rink. Wife wanted to work, and leave the household. So since she didn't play summer skills, she isn't going to play winter hockey. Hockey is expensive. I'm not sure I could swing it with wife gone. So who's fault is it.
I play video games.
I go to school online full time. But it isn't fun. It's tedious and grueling.
I like to joke around allot.
Really fun hasn't really ben my presidence. Just breathing has. Putting one foot in front of the other. Some days are better then others.
Go to the Steeler game. That might be fun. If I go. If it doesn't rain. But what is fun being around a thousand drunk people. What is fun about paying $6 for a beer? When I don't even care about drinking anymore. Drinking became none fun. Really being live at a football game isn't that fun. You miss most of the action. Being up high, you see the plays develop better, but so what.
Fun. I like to go hunting. But that isn't fun anymore and it is not in season. Hunting has become more of chore.
Shooting. I skeet shot allot on Friday nights. But the crew I shot with all have different schedules, and it just wasn't fun anymore.
I like to go golfing. But even at that I go by myself. What is fun about that?
I like to go in the bushes with the wife. That was always fun.
