I can't wait for that moment when your H actually realises quite how badly he shot himself in the foot and what a fool he is....I would pay good money to be there to see that moment....because it WILL happen.
Sadly, I've been there for that moment of revelation from my X and it still doesn't make things better. I just kept telling him that I'm going to be fine and things happen for a reason. As he said himself....at least you did all you could. I'm the one that did everything wrong and I have no one to blame but myself and I never tried to make things work....duh, where the hell were you when I tried to tell you that. The icing on the cake was when he said that he should have listened to me when I told him that he was going to regret all this in 5 years.....he said, uh, it only took a year and I regret it all. Nice, glad to see he completely destroyed our marriage before he came to this conclusion.
I think lwb's H will come to the same reality as mine, but just like me she is going to hang her head high and deal with the life she's been given. She is going to be fine....okay, no...she's going to be great and he will look back on this and regret it too....mark my words.
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"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
