A friend of mine met his current wife while he was just getting S and D'd from his first wife (granted she was a drug addict and he needed to D her) but he took their son and moved into this new M, had a second kid, and 9 years in went through a S (at her request), is currently living with W#2 again but very unhappy with his M.
What does that tell you?
NG#2 ain't perfect either.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2