Hope, thank you for sharing your story with us and opening yourself up to the question of the LBS (which I am sad to see you are one now as well). I have not had time to read your other threads, so forgive me. Did you have an EA or PA when you seperated from your H? Do you think that if he would have stopped persuing you and changed himself instead, you would have wanted to come home earlier or was it the fact that you finally felt like you had lost him that got you to turn back to him? The old only want what you cant have mentality. Once again, thanks for sharing any insight you can bring to all of LBS. You are giving us a gift.


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

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