Come on Sawks, at this stage, you shouldn't be seeing anyone more than once MAYBE twice a week. What will you do with the other days? Well, you could sit in the pool underneath an icy mountain waterfall and contemplate Zen koans, or, hang out with your guy friends, or, if you must find some other female friends.
Take a dance class or a yoga class, you'll probably find that the ration of men to women is in your favor. Keep on GAL besides the gym and you never know what you'll find.
Dan
I hit the gym every night, that has is always will be my saving grace, keeps me sane, and calm. I hang with my buddies. I did yoga for awhile, but i find i like strength training much more. I know all about the ratio however LOL.. usually 19-1 i tell my friends..
Soon it will be snowboarding season.. i can't wait
One thing i noticed, is ng2 compliments me about everything. I mean everything, i am this and that etc, W never complimented me, never. Ng2 wants to go snowbaording with me this winter, maybe catch a concert here and there. W would never go to the hill or ever goto a concert, only complain about the music i listened to. ng2 wants to meet my friends, W had ZERO interest in my friends, and never came out. Then the complaints would come out that I took my sweet time getting ready when we would goto her friends. I call them her friends, because i likely will never see any of them ever again. I am ok with that, i only liked a couple anyways.
Am i playing the comparison game? doesn't matter IMHO..
a good friend of mine met his current wife 2 months after his sep.. they've been together 7 years.. doesn't that say anything?
