Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
Come on Sawks, at this stage, you shouldn't be seeing anyone more than once MAYBE twice a week. What will you do with the other days? Well, you could sit in the pool underneath an icy mountain waterfall and contemplate Zen koans, or, hang out with your guy friends, or, if you must find some other female friends.
Take a dance class or a yoga class, you'll probably find that the ration of men to women is in your favor. Keep on GAL besides the gym and you never know what you'll find.
Come on Sawks, at this stage, you shouldn't be seeing anyone more than once MAYBE twice a week. What will you do with the other days? Well, you could sit in the pool underneath an icy mountain waterfall and contemplate Zen koans, or, hang out with your guy friends, or, if you must find some other female friends.
Take a dance class or a yoga class, you'll probably find that the ration of men to women is in your favor. Keep on GAL besides the gym and you never know what you'll find.
Dan
I hit the gym every night, that has is always will be my saving grace, keeps me sane, and calm. I hang with my buddies. I did yoga for awhile, but i find i like strength training much more. I know all about the ratio however LOL.. usually 19-1 i tell my friends..
Soon it will be snowboarding season.. i can't wait
One thing i noticed, is ng2 compliments me about everything. I mean everything, i am this and that etc, W never complimented me, never. Ng2 wants to go snowbaording with me this winter, maybe catch a concert here and there. W would never go to the hill or ever goto a concert, only complain about the music i listened to. ng2 wants to meet my friends, W had ZERO interest in my friends, and never came out. Then the complaints would come out that I took my sweet time getting ready when we would goto her friends. I call them her friends, because i likely will never see any of them ever again. I am ok with that, i only liked a couple anyways.
Am i playing the comparison game? doesn't matter IMHO..
a good friend of mine met his current wife 2 months after his sep.. they've been together 7 years.. doesn't that say anything?
Sure it does, and people win the lottery and get struck by lightning. I know different people who have done both, but, that's just not the way to bet.
I'm certainly not saying it can't happen and sometimes the first option is the best option. Only you can decide.
I look at the comparison game like when you buy your first house. After you've lived there a while, you learn about stupid design tricks and you vow to not have the light switch behind the bathroom door ever again.
Sure it does, and people win the lottery and get struck by lightning. I know different people who have done both, but, that's just not the way to bet.
I'm certainly not saying it can't happen and sometimes the first option is the best option. Only you can decide.
I look at the comparison game like when you buy your first house. After you've lived there a while, you learn about stupid design tricks and you vow to not have the light switch behind the bathroom door ever again.
Cheers Dan
I like the way you think your a wise guy Dan.
I think it is what it is, different strokes.. so i really agree with you there.
It's day to day as it's been for the past 4 months, and see what the big guy upstairs has in store for me. That's all I can do, in the meantime i have gained someone that i like hanging out with and doing things with. I really can't say the last year of my M, i enjoyed anything about it, and i know she didn't.
A friend of mine met his current wife while he was just getting S and D'd from his first wife (granted she was a drug addict and he needed to D her) but he took their son and moved into this new M, had a second kid, and 9 years in went through a S (at her request), is currently living with W#2 again but very unhappy with his M.
What does that tell you?
NG#2 ain't perfect either.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
A friend of mine met his current wife while he was just getting S and D'd from his first wife (granted she was a drug addict and he needed to D her) but he took their son and moved into this new M, had a second kid, and 9 years in went through a S (at her request), is currently living with W#2 again but very unhappy with his M.
What does that tell you?
NG#2 ain't perfect either.
I know what you are saying.. i completely understand. Noone is prefect, i am just saying I like hanging out with her and i am sure i will find her faults, i am a scorpio i find faults in everyone (but myself LOL)
