it has been a crazy couple of days! I put my foot down about all of exh's junk in my garage and he has finally started to move it all out. He even took the HUGE recliner in his SMALL car. It was so funny, I took pictures out of the window.
He decides to start arguing over who gets what stuff NOW. Huh? I typed up a list of who gets what and gave it to him in early June. He did make any changes and mumbled it was fine. Then I gave those lists to my lawyer and they became "exhibits A & B" in the divorce settlement. He agreed to all of it. Why does he wait 2 months later to start bickering over what he wants? It is too late. He was mad because I kept a picture of a lion that I had bought him one year for his birthday. I always loved that picture and he never liked it. So I decided to keep it. So I told him that he got $6,500 and so I can get the lion picture.
He is still sending me text messages. I dont' mind too much. They are just odd. Telling me that he is so glad that I have always been a part of his life, that he misses me, that I am a good person. Whatever. And he called me yesterday to tell me that he passed his nursing exam. I was truely happy for him. I know this will open job opportunities and get him to a better place. I also think that he doesn't know what to do without me. When he has good news, I was the first person he turned to tell. I dont' think he ever stopped loving me.
Well my break is over. Time for recess duty.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08