Essie - IMO, if he's still being a total butthead then sell the tickets for a ridiculous price and donate the money to the fundraiser. If he's being kind and considerate and deserving of your time then donate money to the fundraiser and take your H to the match for his b-day. If he's being ok but seeming to be uncomfortable around you for some stupid reason then give him the tickets and tell him you knew he wanted to go and you "happened" upon these tickets and knew he wanted to go and you were sure he could find one of his buddies to go with him.
Just MHO.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!