Your H changed jobs right? he carried the insurance for the family right? Are you sure the insurance from his old job didn't end the day he quit? (it does here) Are you sure insurance from his new job starts so soon? where I work there is a probation period before benefits start.
Rather than nagging him about getting the forms try asking him if there is a problem or is there something you can do to help with the process.
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Him being around every day for a week, knocked me down again. It's like a blow everytime he shuts me off again.
It seems like it is all or none with you and H. This is old advice, but when he comes around all the time make yourself less available. Protect yourself from the big fall when he drops you like a hot potato! But it's up to you. Would you rather have a little bit more often OR all at once and then none at all?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
