Dar it takes time. It wasn't like I flipped a switch and it just happened. It was months and months and months of showing appreciation, respect and admiration.

There were at times, I was on my hands and knees saying God just help me I am not seeing anything and I wanted to give up.

I came here for support and encouragement. Something inside said don't give up. It really has only been the past 2 months that h has really started to come around.

Not sure if this helps your sitch or not, but hang in there. Be a friend with NO expectations.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"