Why? That is a tough question! I don't believe that God chose for my W to have an A and devestate our family, my W made that choice, not God. My W hurt our children,it was not God. What I have learned is that God will walk beside me through the hurt, He will comfort me and revive me as long as I allow Him to do so. I sometimes think that if God isn't fixing this (not that He has to) then it is because something better waits down the road. That something may be, in time, a reconciliation between W and myself in a stronger more committed bond or it may mean a R elsewhere. I am not God so I don't know for sure. I also don't know your whole story but I do understand the "why" question, it's one all believers struggle with in times such as these.
