You asked why God is making you wait. No one knows what God's plan is. You know this. We do what we know and what we have learned and what we read.
Are people coming to you and you are ignoring them? Maybe. Are these people God's people trying to help you? I sincerely don't think so. These are divorced women looking for a man, or divorced people telling you it is ok to divorce. Someday, this may be God's plan, not because you chose it, but because your wife did. But, do not give up on your wife. All things are possible with God. Again, you know this.
