Thank you for your kind words. I have been sleeping alot since my mom passed away. It does help with the healing. I am just glad that she is not suffering anymore and is in god's arms.
Seeing major changes in ex. He is becoming more and more his old self. Kids are asking me if we are getting back together. Family confused and does not know what to make out of his behaviors and loving gestures toward me.
I am just living day by day. Not expecting anything and not pursuing in any way shape or form.
My only plan is to take care of me, my kids and my father.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting, Your mom is so very proud of you,I am so very sure. My goal every day is to behave with dignity and grace. You are an example of all these things. God's Blessings will be yours, Holly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
As I was reading what you wrote, I couldn't help look at it as one final gift your mom gave you, one final bit of encouragement. Her passing maybe will help your ex see more clearly.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....
trusting, hugs babe, I am so sorry to hear about your loss, it is such an awful shame that we have to lose the ones we love, please take care of yourself. god bless you
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!
