I have a moral dilema now, I am siding towards going, and I will be doing my best not to act upset if W flirts with other people (I know she wont with me, she hasn't for a while). If she asks about it, what do i say? she will take it as me not caring (or still not caring, if she still thinks there is a possibility of getting back together).
I'm in 2 minds, on one hand - If I just let it go and don't even pay attention, then i'm doing the same as I was when we were together, only more-so, as then i had a hurt look on my face.
On the other hand, I will seem like i really REALLY, don't care, will she feel free-er to do it, or bad that i don't care?
But if I get angry and pissed off, then it's a 180, but I will also be persuing?
Confusing, need help please \:\(


t7-years
m3-years
Me:22
W:27
Wifes kids (love them like my own)
D-10
D-7
Our Kids
S-3

W has depression
Separated-14/07/08

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