I have a moral dilema now, I am siding towards going, and I will be doing my best not to act upset if W flirts with other people (I know she wont with me, she hasn't for a while). If she asks about it, what do i say? she will take it as me not caring (or still not caring, if she still thinks there is a possibility of getting back together). I'm in 2 minds, on one hand - If I just let it go and don't even pay attention, then i'm doing the same as I was when we were together, only more-so, as then i had a hurt look on my face. On the other hand, I will seem like i really REALLY, don't care, will she feel free-er to do it, or bad that i don't care? But if I get angry and pissed off, then it's a 180, but I will also be persuing? Confusing, need help please
t7-years m3-years Me:22 W:27 Wifes kids (love them like my own) D-10 D-7 Our Kids S-3