He sure does sound like a piece - putting dibs on a still living mans tools??!!!

You do know that the affair will not last. It may last longer than your M, and if it does, your W will be up a creek without a paddle.

My W also lives with OM on a lake. However, it is a 5 story house in one of the richest areas of the country. And she and him are trying to get spousal support from me.

My S7 is a cub scout too! Such a great GAL activity and it teaches good morals which he wont learn from his mother.

I learned of the affair from my then 5 year old daughter. She thought it was cute that mommy had a boyfriend and was sharing germs. My daughter even told me the guy paints his toenails! I knew of him beforehand, but she said he was just a friend. I told her to not introduce the kids to him but she did anyway . That crossed my line and I filed for a D. Oh, and he is 31 years older than my W - his kids are older than her. I think she is looking forward to changing diapers again.

You sound like a strong man Mike and I am hoping your wife has an awakening. Then the hard work begins.