I think about my H most all the time. It's so hard not to!!! I am doing some better.
Journaling:
Today I get a phone call from my ins. agent. He told me that he had been waiting on my H to send some papers back to get him off our ins. auto & homeowners. So, he wanted me to send him an email to say cancel him off as far back as I could b/c they didn't want to cover him in another state & they could get some money back for me for the policy. I was honest & told him that my H had paid me for his auto ins. in March & I had paid the total for both vehicles, he said we could let him stay on it until Sept. 17th. He sent my H that email & also told him that his name had been removed from the homeowners policy since there was a change in mortgage on July 10th. Basically, that answered all my H's statements he had sent me earlier this month.
My H sent the agent a nasty note saying that he didn't know his ins. was going to be canceled so soon & thought he had until Sept. 17th & had gotten some more ins. quickly & wanted the remaider of his premium sent to him. The agent explained to him that since he moved out of state, I became named insured and owner of the auto policy after the D. So any premium issues have to be taken up with me & not them. He also said that his cancellation will occur on September 17, 2008 unless I authorize otherwise and no refund will be forthcoming.
He told him he could hold his other policy until Sept. so I don't know what he will do. It sounds like he may have to contact me. My agent blind copied me on the emails, my H used a different email address which I thought was interesting. I first thought it might be one from work but the joint email they use is gmail & I assume his work would be the name of the place since it is a large facility & the email he was using was gmail account but in his name only.
The agent also told me my H wanted him to write him a policy, but the agent said he couldn't being in another state.
I hope he doesn't email me from his joint email, I really do not want to respond on that one. Also if he were to call I'm not sure I want to talk to him either. If he had not M this OW I wouldn't care but I would be afraid he would tell me he M her & right now I really don't know what I would say to him.
I'm probably over thinking this, I just thought it was interesting, also he told the agent he had not had time to get another ins. co. He's had since the beg. of Aug. I always did that sort of thing for him, even before we got married. I guess he just figured he had over a month to do it. But when we changed ins. co. last year I did research for 2 months before I found someone.
Sorry I took up so much time here! I'm just typing & thinking at the same time.
Thank you all for listening. I'll let you know if I hear from him b/c I'll for sure need advice then. (((HUGS)))
