Hi, I hope you're there safe & sound ! My heart goes out to you. I don't even want to think about when my oldest leaves.

Hey, stop answering the phone during the night !! Tell him you're sleeping (self care) & if he wants to talk, do it when you're awake. You need your rest, Dr. (Cookies) orders. \:\)

be safe

M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.