((( Mishka))) (((Kalni)) (((Lisa))) (((T)))

Thanks for your messages of support!

Maybe we can start a possum and drill saying here. Has anyone ever seen Dame Edna (60 year old cross dressing man, with purple hair who interviews celebrities)? He/she always calls people 'possum'!

So no possum action yet....

I did ask H if he wanted to come over a bit earlier this morning and I would make him a cup of coffee before he started work on the bathroom (which is almost finished). He said that he would be there, but he didnt show.... In good news though he sent me a Utube link, which is a first. But after kissing action, an email link feels like we are going backwards.

So my dilema is..

Its H's birthday in 2 weeks time. When I saw him for the concert he was hinting about how much he would really like to see a very very important rugby match that is being played on the night before his birthday. Only problem is that the tickets have been sold out months ago. There were a few tickets left in the really really expensive section, but its a bit hard to justify..... Anyway a few days ago I did a search for tickets, entered him into any competition I could find for free tickets, tried e-bay etc. But couldnt find anything that wasnt ridiculously overpriced. Then yesterday I thought I would just check back on the official ticket website and they must have had a few cancellations, or credit card declines, and there were a few tickets left in the medium priced seats. So I got 2 tickets. Very exciting! I love giving people suprises like that.

But the rugby game is on the same night one of my new friends is having a fundraising dinner. And I already said I would go to it. So do I give H the ticket and he can take a friend? Or do I just give $$ to the friend who is doing the fundraising? And if H is back to being an arse, and dropping out of contact, should I give him the tickets at all?? Will he see it as pressure and me coming on too strong? At least I have 2 weeks, and I know its highly unlikely that he would have managed to get himself tickets..

What do you think?

I'm curious to see if he wants to see me this weekend - I'm pretty much busy the whole time!


Me - 29
H - 32
Married 7 years
Separated 09/07