I had to chuckle a little about your H's reaction to your boundaries. It seems like he is now the LBS and you are the WAS. Is he,heaven forbid,pursuing you? Lady, you are da bomb! You are one masterful DBer, you have detached so much that I'm not sure he could get you back now!
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
