Wow Upside as you know my h is not willing to take the plunge of sleeping over. I am not sure what is with that. It's like he just can't.

I am hoping that he just decides to pack it up where he is living and just comes back for good. I am not so sure I would like him to sleep over but not ready to return. He needs to return for good as a whole man.

I agree with New. I was thinking about this today. Work out your issues apart so when they do return you have already connected and maybe it would be more like smooth sailing.

Upside you are doing so great! Keep it going! It's good to hear we are both in much better places. Remember how it was for both of us in the beginning?


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"